{"id":116224,"date":"2023-04-26T20:31:54","date_gmt":"2023-04-27T00:31:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rbach.net\/?p=116224"},"modified":"2024-01-13T17:21:53","modified_gmt":"2024-01-13T22:21:53","slug":"grumpiness-its-a-good-thing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rbach.net\/index.php\/grumpiness-its-a-good-thing\/","title":{"rendered":"Grumpiness it&#8217;s a Good Thing"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/grumpylady-e1682187535236.jpg?ssl=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-128054\" title=\"Grumpiness it a Good Thing\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/grumpylady-e1682187535236-111x150.jpg?resize=92%2C125&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Grumpiness it a Good Thing\" width=\"92\" height=\"125\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/grumpylady-e1682187535236.jpg?resize=111%2C150&amp;ssl=1 111w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/grumpylady-e1682187535236.jpg?resize=55%2C75&amp;ssl=1 55w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/grumpylady-e1682187535236.jpg?w=454&amp;ssl=1 454w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 92px) 100vw, 92px\" \/><\/a>Grumpiness is the feeling of being slightly annoyed. He all know grumpiness when we see it. The average U.S. adult will be in a bad <a title=\"Morning madness: Average adult wakes up grumpy 300 days a year!\" href=\"https:\/\/studyfinds.org\/morning-madness-average-adult-wakes-up-grumpy-300-days-a-year\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">mood 300 times a year<\/a>. People can be grumpy for various reasons. According to the interwebs, some of these reasons are: Lack of sleep, Being <a title=\"Hangry\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/better\/pop-culture\/science-behind-being-hangry-ncna887806\">hangry<\/a>, Health problems, and Stress. However. <strong>Grumpiness could be the secret to success<\/strong>. <a class=\"bi4tr\" title=\"Meredith Bennett-Smith\" href=\"https:\/\/web.archive.org\/web\/20220515065516\/https:\/\/qz.com\/author\/theedread\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Meredith Bennett-Smith<\/a> explains in a <a title=\"The case for being grumpy at work\" href=\"https:\/\/qz.com\/929348\/why-being-grumpy-at-work-is-good-for-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">article<\/a> on <a title=\"Quartz\" href=\"https:\/\/qz.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Quartz<\/a> that grumpiness has benefits for your job.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/Strydingbrain-e1682188419250.jpg?ssl=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-128056\" title=\"professor of psychology\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/Strydingbrain-e1682188419250-147x150.jpg?resize=98%2C100&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"professor of psychology\" width=\"98\" height=\"100\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/Strydingbrain-e1682188419250.jpg?resize=147%2C150&amp;ssl=1 147w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/Strydingbrain-e1682188419250.jpg?w=529&amp;ssl=1 529w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 98px) 100vw, 98px\" \/><\/a>The author cites <a title=\"Feeling grumpy 'is good for you'\" href=\"http:\/\/news.bbc.co.uk\/2\/hi\/health\/8339647.stm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">studies<\/a> that say that feeling slightly down seems to make some people more attentive and detail-oriented in their thinking. <a title=\"Joseph Forgas\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unsw.edu.au\/staff\/joe-forgas\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Joseph Forgas<\/a> a professor of psychology at the <a title=\"University of New South Wales\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unsw.edu.au\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">University of New South Wales<\/a> says that the connection between irritation and attentiveness has evolutionary underpinnings. Mild negative moods can lead to us being more observant, and paying more attention to detail. \u201c<em>Negative mood operates as a mild alarm signal, informing us that we face a new, unfamiliar and potentially problematic situation, and so subconsciously produce a more attentive and focused thinking style.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\r\n<h3>Advantages of grumpiness<\/h3>\r\n<p class=\"cyhZ9\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/worriedman.jpg?ssl=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-128057\" title=\"Pessimist\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/worriedman.jpg?resize=75%2C100&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Pessimist\" width=\"75\" height=\"100\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/worriedman.jpg?resize=113%2C150&amp;ssl=1 113w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/worriedman.jpg?resize=56%2C75&amp;ssl=1 56w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/worriedman.jpg?w=768&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 75px) 100vw, 75px\" \/><\/a><a title=\"Why it pays to be grumpy and bad-tempered\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/future\/article\/20160809-why-it-pays-to-be-grumpy-and-bad-tempered\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Evidence<\/a> suggests that pondering the worst has some clear advantages. Pessimists may be superior negotiators, more discerning decision-makers and cut their risk of having a heart attack. They can expect more stable marriages, higher earnings and longer lives \u2013 though, of course, they\u2019ll anticipate the opposite. At the center this is the fact that our feelings are adaptive. They have they evolved to serve useful functions and help us thrive.<br \/><br \/>In a 2009 <a title=\"Creative production by angry people peaks early on, decreases over time, and is relatively unstructured\" href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S002210311100148X\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">study<\/a> <a title=\"Matthijs Baas\" href=\"https:\/\/www.uva.nl\/profiel\/b\/a\/m.baas\/m.baas.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Matthijs Baas<\/a> at the <a title=\"University of Amsterdam\" href=\"https:\/\/www.uva.nl\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">University of Amsterdam<\/a> found that students that were &#8220;a bit angrier&#8221; but not &#8220;driven to full-blown fits of rage,\u201d produced more ideas. Their contributions were also more original, repeated by less than 1% of the study\u2019s participants. They were better at moments of haphazard innovation, or so-called \u201cunstructured\u201d thinking. Professor Baas <a title=\"Why it pays to be grumpy and bad-tempered\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/future\/article\/20160809-why-it-pays-to-be-grumpy-and-bad-tempered\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">explains<\/a>. \u201c<em>Anger really prepares the body to mobilize resources \u2013 it tells you that the situation you\u2019re in is bad and gives you an energetic boost to get you out of it<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\r\n<h3 class=\"cyhZ9\">The brain<\/h3>\r\n<p class=\"cyhZ9\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/aaea1602-be21-4d64-936e-05a45a31aed9-e1682189149427.jpg?ssl=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-128058\" title=\"The brain\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/aaea1602-be21-4d64-936e-05a45a31aed9-e1682189149427-150x130.jpg?resize=100%2C87&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"The brain\" width=\"100\" height=\"87\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/aaea1602-be21-4d64-936e-05a45a31aed9-e1682189149427.jpg?resize=150%2C130&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/aaea1602-be21-4d64-936e-05a45a31aed9-e1682189149427.jpg?resize=75%2C65&amp;ssl=1 75w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/aaea1602-be21-4d64-936e-05a45a31aed9-e1682189149427.jpg?resize=768%2C668&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/aaea1602-be21-4d64-936e-05a45a31aed9-e1682189149427.jpg?w=944&amp;ssl=1 944w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 100px) 100vw, 100px\" \/><\/a>To understand how this works, first we need understand with what\u2019s going on in the brain. When you face <strong>stressful situations,<\/strong> your body <strong>releases hormones<\/strong> which prepare you for action. Then it\u2019s up to chemical signals in the brain to get you riled up. The brain release different hormones when you are grumpy. Some of these hormones are:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li>Cortisol: This is a stress hormone that is released when we feel threatened or anxious.<\/li>\r\n<li>Adrenaline: This is another stress hormone that is released when we face danger or excitement.\u00a0<\/li>\r\n<li>Testosterone: This is a sex hormone that is associated with dominance and aggression.<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<p class=\"cyhZ9\">It is believed that this physiological response has evolved primarily to prepare the body for physical aggression. However,\u00a0 this reaction is also known to have other benefits. It boosts motivation and gives people the intestinal fortitude to take mental risks. In fact, scientists are increasingly recognizing that grumpiness may be <a title=\"Why it pays to be grumpy and bad-tempered\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/future\/article\/20160809-why-it-pays-to-be-grumpy-and-bad-tempered\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">beneficial<\/a> to the full range of social skills \u2013 improving language skills, memory and making us more persuasive. Professor Forgas explains. \u201c<em>Negative moods indicate we\u2019re in a new and challenging situation and call for a more attentive, detailed and observant thinking style<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\r\n<h3>Grumpiness encourages people to act better<\/h3>\r\n<p class=\"cyhZ9\">In line with this, research has also found that feeling slightly down enhances our awareness of social cues. Professor Forgas used the <a title=\"Does Happiness Make Us Selfish?\" href=\"https:\/\/greatergood.berkeley.edu\/article\/research_digest\/does_happiness_make_us_selfish\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">dictator game<\/a> to <a title=\"When happiness makes us selfish, but sadness makes us fair: Affective influences on interpersonal strategies in the dictator game.\" href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/record\/2010-04039-001\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">demonstrate<\/a> that grumpiness encourages people to act in a better way towards others. The dictator game is a simple economic game that tests how people behave when they have the power to allocate resources between themselves and others.<\/p>\r\n<p>It turns out that happier participants keep more of the prize for themselves. While those in a sad mood are significantly less selfish. \u201c<em>People who are feeling slightly down pay better attention to external social norms and expectations, and so they act in a fairer and just way towards others,<\/em>\u201d says Forgas.<\/p>\r\n<h3>Defensive Pessimism<\/h3>\r\n<p>Grumpiness creates a \u201c<a title=\"The Upside of Pessimism\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/health\/archive\/2014\/09\/dont-think-positively\/379993\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Defensive pessimism<\/a>\u201d outlook. <a title=\"Murphy\u2019s Law\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cs.cmu.edu\/~fgandon\/miscellaneous\/murphy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Murphy\u2019s Law<\/a>, the universal constant that whatever can go wrong, will go wrong is at the center of <a title=\"Are you a defensive pessimist?\" href=\"http:\/\/academics.wellesley.edu\/Psychology\/Norem\/Quiz\/quiz.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Defensive pessimism<\/a>. By anticipating the worst, you can be prepared when it actually happens.<br \/><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/pxhere.com\/en\/photo\/596456\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-128065\" title=\"Defensive Pessimism\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/defen-e1682200465979-136x150.jpg?resize=90%2C100&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Defensive Pessimism\" width=\"90\" height=\"100\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/defen-e1682200465979.jpg?resize=136%2C150&amp;ssl=1 136w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/defen-e1682200465979.jpg?resize=68%2C75&amp;ssl=1 68w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/defen-e1682200465979.jpg?w=515&amp;ssl=1 515w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 90px) 100vw, 90px\" \/><\/a>Defensive pessimism works like this. As an example, you have a presentation due at work. With defensive pessimism all you do is think of the worst possible outcomes. There is a traffic jam heading in to the office, your are late for the meeting, your PPT file is corrupt, your boss is going to ask hard questions. These worries spin and spin in your brain. So you need to think of some solutions to be prepared. As Andy Grove wrote, Only the paranoid survive.<\/p>\r\n<h3>Happiness is not the answer<\/h3>\r\n<p>Happiness carries far more serious risks that grumpiness. Happiness is associated <a title=\"Oxytocin\" href=\"https:\/\/my.clevelandclinic.org\/health\/articles\/22618-oxytocin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">oxytocin<\/a>, the cuddle hormone. <a title=\"Oxytocin reduces amygdala responses during threat approach\" href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S0306453016307818\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Studies<\/a> have shown that <strong>oxytocin reduces our ability to identify threats<\/strong>. It prevents us paying due attention to dangers such as binge drinking, overeating and unsafe sex.<br \/><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/happyhaze-e1682196604937.jpg?ssl=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-128064\" title=\"Happy haze\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/happyhaze-e1682196604937-100x150.jpg?resize=67%2C100&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Happy haze\" width=\"67\" height=\"100\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/happyhaze-e1682196604937.jpg?resize=100%2C150&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/happyhaze-e1682196604937.jpg?resize=50%2C75&amp;ssl=1 50w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rbach.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/happyhaze-e1682196604937.jpg?w=410&amp;ssl=1 410w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 67px) 100vw, 67px\" \/><\/a>\u201c<em>Happiness functions like a shorthand signal that we\u2019re safe and it\u2019s not necessary to pay too much attention to the environment,<\/em>\u201d Professor Forgas <a title=\"Why it pays to be grumpy at work\" href=\"https:\/\/web.archive.org\/web\/20220816001050\/https:\/\/executivevine.com\/executive\/articles\/grumpy-at-work\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">says<\/a>. Those in a continuous <strong>happy haze<\/strong> may miss important cues. Instead, they may be over-reliant on existing knowledge \u2013 leaving them <strong>prone to serious errors of judgement<\/strong>. In one study, Forgas and colleagues found that those in a good mood were less able to think skeptically and were <strong>significantly more gullible<\/strong>.<br \/><br \/><a title=\"Gabriele Oettingen\" href=\"https:\/\/as.nyu.edu\/faculty\/gabriele-oettingen.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Gabriele Oettingen<\/a> from <a title=\"New York University\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nyu.edu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">New York University<\/a> found that <strong>optimism<\/strong> about the future may have the most ironic effects. Positive fantasies about the future can be <strong>profoundly de-motivating<\/strong>. She <a title=\"The Shocking Counter-Intuitive Science Behind The Truth of Positive Thinking with Dr. Gabriele Oettingen\" href=\"https:\/\/www.successpodcast.com\/show-notes\/2018\/9\/26\/the-shocking-counter-intuitive-science-behind-the-truth-of-positive-thinking-with-dr-gabriele-oettingen\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">says<\/a>, <em>\u201cPeople feel accomplished, they relax, and they do not invest the necessary effort to actually realize these positive fantasies and daydreams.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\r\n<h3><em>rb-<\/em><\/h3>\r\n<p><em>Grumpiness is good for you. The next time someone tells you to \u201ccheer up\u201d tell them you are improving your improving language skills, memory, persuasiveness, and sense of fairness. Then you can have the last cynical laugh.<\/em><br \/><br \/><\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.obama.org\/updates\/help-ukraine\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">How you can help Ukraine!<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Related article<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li><a title=\"The World's Angriest Countries\" href=\"https:\/\/www.statista.com\/chart\/17842\/share-of-the-population-that-experienced-a-lot-of-anger-yesterday\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">The World&#8217;s Angriest Countries <\/a>\u00a0(<a title=\"Statista\" href=\"https:\/\/www.statista.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Statista<\/a>)<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><em><a title=\"Ralph Bach\" href=\"https:\/\/rbach.net\/index.php\/new-resume\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ralph Bach<\/a>\u00a0has been in IT long enough to know better and has blogged from his\u00a0<a title=\"Bach Seat\" href=\"https:\/\/rbach.net\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Bach Seat<\/a>\u00a0about IT, careers, and anything else that catches his attention since 2005. 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